Not making a first post of the year until Spring. At least, this year is March and still technically winter. Shrug, I'm okay with being a bad blogger. I'm good at so many other things and only got that way from continued effort so I keep trying.
Ever since I reached a year @ SNS right b4 the Holidaze I've been in a funk that almost but, not quite smelled of regret. I was disenchanted with my life or rather my present circumstances. I couldn' believe I was still there, still working as a Server...not getting ahead, not getting any replies to my many applications elsewhere.
See, when I quit my last serving position in the 90's I said NEVER AGAIN. And, here I am stuck and stagnant in a crappy lil apartment doing menial labor and mingling with people so much more successful. I had begun to doubt that my life choices were any good afterall. Choosing to leave the professional world at the height of my power (late 20's) and right before my education was complete (still uncompleted) has left me now a decade later approaching 40 and rather unemployable. Except in service of some kind or another. I began to wonder what if. And, that is a terribly scarey and soul wounding path to venture on which I don't recomend. Thankfully, I only watched the preview and didn't but a ticket. Horror flicks aren't really my style.
Right now, I am focusing on the bright side because being proactive brings positive change. Right now, I know that I am thankful for my work for it feeds my family, puts gas in my car, and allows us the lil luxuries that make this suburban life fun and enjoyable. Right now, I know that when I am at work I do a great job and constantly exceed the expectations of my managers, my co-workers, and my customers. Right now, I know that I have 2 potential job oppurtunities that I am over qualified for but will have to compete with other over qualified people to aquire. Right now, I have just been offered a transcription project along with a potential internship later in the year at a dear to me non profit.
I've practically given up on facebook and twitter. It totally sucks now and I can never seem to keep up with nonsense. The filters help me keep up with extended family and birthdays but I am letting my attachment to constantly updatting and attention whoring to a minimum. I liked it better when you saw everthing in a time line not just your favorites or groups. Most days, I just skip FB and go straight to LJ. In fact, most days I skip the internet and go outside.
Spring Break is coming up and I'm planning at least one Chicago day trip. I want to do a muesum but, since it'll be me and Amber plus a friend and her son I think Millenium Park or Navy Pier might be a better choice to hold everyone's interest. I also want to take Amber to Fermilab and spend at least one day in the woods.
Wednesday, March 7, 2012
Monday, August 15, 2011
B2S
one week and counting. tomaro is my last day to rise with the noon day sun. after that, it'll be time to reaquaint myself with the early morning sun.
supplies have been acquired, 1st day outfuit has been established, and lunches have been discussed. Now, if only there were a downloadable software we could install to make the transition super sweet.
before we blink we'll be searching out sweaters and awaiting snow. then, wishing for spring and bemoaning the furnace of summer's sun. those elders were serious that time marches on.
supplies have been acquired, 1st day outfuit has been established, and lunches have been discussed. Now, if only there were a downloadable software we could install to make the transition super sweet.
before we blink we'll be searching out sweaters and awaiting snow. then, wishing for spring and bemoaning the furnace of summer's sun. those elders were serious that time marches on.
Monday, July 25, 2011
the view so far
it's already the begining of the end of summer! it's sad how fast the weeks went by. but, oh the fun we had and the shared good times with my girl are a blessing I'll keep in my pocket for many moons to come.
We started the summer with early morning swimming lessons in June which conflicted rather terribly with my new late night shift at SNS. Yet, we made do and by the 3rd week Amber learned to swim well enough to be comfortable in the pool w/o me next to her the whole time and to bravely dive off the deep end and safely swim to the edge. I turned 38 around that time and my gift to myself was the lose of 30lbs and a bathing suit one size smaller than last year.
In July, the days passed so quickly. We saw the Dalai Lama on the 17th @ UIC Pavilion thanks to the Theosophical Society and our membership to The Order of the Round Table kid's group. Our group was 1 in 12 that was picked to decorate an icon that would be placed on stage with his Holiness through the event. We got the Om which the kids and parents involved really enjoyed decorating as well as sharing what we knew and learning something new about the symbol and Hinduism. The experience of sharing the same space as the Dalai Lama was a once in a lifetime kinda thing and I'll never forget it. Amber was touched by his sense of humour, and Scott was impressed w/his view of modern world events, and I fully embraced the message of his speech on 'bridging the faith divide'.
Scott's having a rough time dealing with the loss of an old good buddy from back in the day, LJ. He died in his sleep a lil more than a wk ago and we haven't hear the whyfor or what yet. Then, Sat his laptop fell off it's table and crashed into the wall and into non working order. Wish I could think of something wonderful to do to brighten what's gotta be a horrible monday for him. He's been such a bear that I've already used up all my available good will the past 2 days. any suggestions?
So, now, it's coming and is already been spotted in the malls and super stores. dun uh, dun uh, dun uh! Beware, take cover, it is Back to school time. We've spent a few weeks at the pool, we've enjoyed the farmers' market, and our muesum passes but we are not ready for that yet. We've still got the Ren Faire, 6 Flags, Ravinia, and some camping b4 the end of summer fun gets here. Now, I've got to save all my cash to pay for school registration (which should have been done back in May but I 'm a slackermom in that regard), then school supplies, and a few fantastic BTS outfits for this girl who plans to be taller than me by the time she is 10 (To be truthful, I've only got her by an inch maybe 2).
Today, we submit out summer reading hours at the library and tomorrow she starts BBall camp for the next 2 wks. But, just because it's really almost over doesn't mean we can't enjoy every oppurtunity. How about you? Are you eagerly awaiting the restart of school? Or like me, wishing there was a pause button to prolong summer bliss? is prolly cause I have an only, yes!?!
We started the summer with early morning swimming lessons in June which conflicted rather terribly with my new late night shift at SNS. Yet, we made do and by the 3rd week Amber learned to swim well enough to be comfortable in the pool w/o me next to her the whole time and to bravely dive off the deep end and safely swim to the edge. I turned 38 around that time and my gift to myself was the lose of 30lbs and a bathing suit one size smaller than last year.
In July, the days passed so quickly. We saw the Dalai Lama on the 17th @ UIC Pavilion thanks to the Theosophical Society and our membership to The Order of the Round Table kid's group. Our group was 1 in 12 that was picked to decorate an icon that would be placed on stage with his Holiness through the event. We got the Om which the kids and parents involved really enjoyed decorating as well as sharing what we knew and learning something new about the symbol and Hinduism. The experience of sharing the same space as the Dalai Lama was a once in a lifetime kinda thing and I'll never forget it. Amber was touched by his sense of humour, and Scott was impressed w/his view of modern world events, and I fully embraced the message of his speech on 'bridging the faith divide'.
Scott's having a rough time dealing with the loss of an old good buddy from back in the day, LJ. He died in his sleep a lil more than a wk ago and we haven't hear the whyfor or what yet. Then, Sat his laptop fell off it's table and crashed into the wall and into non working order. Wish I could think of something wonderful to do to brighten what's gotta be a horrible monday for him. He's been such a bear that I've already used up all my available good will the past 2 days. any suggestions?
So, now, it's coming and is already been spotted in the malls and super stores. dun uh, dun uh, dun uh! Beware, take cover, it is Back to school time. We've spent a few weeks at the pool, we've enjoyed the farmers' market, and our muesum passes but we are not ready for that yet. We've still got the Ren Faire, 6 Flags, Ravinia, and some camping b4 the end of summer fun gets here. Now, I've got to save all my cash to pay for school registration (which should have been done back in May but I 'm a slackermom in that regard), then school supplies, and a few fantastic BTS outfits for this girl who plans to be taller than me by the time she is 10 (To be truthful, I've only got her by an inch maybe 2).
Today, we submit out summer reading hours at the library and tomorrow she starts BBall camp for the next 2 wks. But, just because it's really almost over doesn't mean we can't enjoy every oppurtunity. How about you? Are you eagerly awaiting the restart of school? Or like me, wishing there was a pause button to prolong summer bliss? is prolly cause I have an only, yes!?!
Friday, April 15, 2011
midway through 2011
I know, it's almost half way through 2011 and I'm finally posting. C'mon admit it we've all abadoned our blogs for FB that is untill we have a rant to unleash or a crusade to pursue, am I right? okay, that's a a lil harsh, I know there are those that come back to express a special interest and or unload mighty updates.
I know this because duh, that's what I'm doing right now, HA! There's a very reasonableexcuse explanation for my long silence AND no, it's not because my pc died again. Although, I finally did get my data retrieved from my pc that died in late 2009. Nope, the reasonable explanation is that I'm working again.
And, dudes, it's like really hard work. Customer service plus food service at a fast pace and all I can say is thank goodness for the tips. Yep, I'm working as a Server again after almost a decade of staying home. To be honest, I wasn't sure I could physically do it after 15+ yrs and those boring health issues of the past. But we were in a terrible bind and, yes, it was a desperate act the day I applied at SNS.
I had just enough gas in my car to make a mile circuit of my hobbit hole and I used google maps to find restaurants on that route. I remember being dissapointed that both of the local RR locations were out of reach. I had called first to ask if they were hiring so as not to waste a drop of that precious pricey gasoline. Then, I dropped 6 aps that day, 2 called me back, SNS hired me after the 1st interview.
The first few months were brutal. my poor feet weep for those cheap shoes I wore. who am I kidding my feet scream at me when they remember those shoes and all the terrible choices I ever made in footwear.
I was cocky during my training because I talk big like that but, also because being on the floor felt so familiar and I was picking it all right back up again. I knew what to say and how to serve the food and drinks. I passed the only test I set for myself which was carrying a tray and walking at the same time. My attitude stank of HURRY UP AND LET ME MAKE SOME MONEY ALREADY :D
In fact, the day they finally put me on the floor that pesky pricey precious gasoline issue was dominat on my mind in it's glaring absence from my car. I was estactic and confident when I finally made the seating chart. My first few days were cake because we were slow and even though I only made gas money I had a fist full of dollars. okay, singles but still, I earned those bills with my labor and that felt good.
Of course, we can't have cake all the time and I was about the endure the real test that colored my teeny tiny balancing act at best, elementary. Throughout my training and first week as a server (3 wks) I had never worked during a really busy rush. It had always been slow and I was thankful that the place seemed busy enough to make some money but not busy enough that I had to bring my non existant A game. My first rush came when I was finishing up what appeared to be a slow dinner shift.
The other server T had just been cut after we'd worked 2 hrs and about 5 tables each total with no mare than 2 at a time. I was the only server on the floor and within 15 mins there were ten tables on the floor. T had to come back on the floor, the manager had to take tables, it was truly the stuff of nightmares. I tell myself it wasn't quite epic fail yet, I'm sure my co workers that evening had another opinion.
The next few weeks were more of the same. When it was slow or even a steady flow with other strong servers I was a Rock Star on the floor but, when it was really busy I couldn't keep up and missed out on lots of tables + tips. My confidence dwindled and I began to make stupid mistakes because I was trying to work faster. I began to think they were going to fire me. I never thought about quitting, well, may be a few times...
Without noticing it things got better as I really got familiar with the menu and the seating plan and the computers. After about 2 months in I finally started getting faster, after 3 months I could finally take off the tunnel vision, and I tell you what; being able to see the whole picture really helps during those dreaded rushes.
I may not be as fast as the other servers but I'm great at delegation and while still not a Rock Star during the rushes (who is?) I think I'm finally proving my worth.
I know this because duh, that's what I'm doing right now, HA! There's a very reasonable
And, dudes, it's like really hard work. Customer service plus food service at a fast pace and all I can say is thank goodness for the tips. Yep, I'm working as a Server again after almost a decade of staying home. To be honest, I wasn't sure I could physically do it after 15+ yrs and those boring health issues of the past. But we were in a terrible bind and, yes, it was a desperate act the day I applied at SNS.
I had just enough gas in my car to make a mile circuit of my hobbit hole and I used google maps to find restaurants on that route. I remember being dissapointed that both of the local RR locations were out of reach. I had called first to ask if they were hiring so as not to waste a drop of that precious pricey gasoline. Then, I dropped 6 aps that day, 2 called me back, SNS hired me after the 1st interview.
The first few months were brutal. my poor feet weep for those cheap shoes I wore. who am I kidding my feet scream at me when they remember those shoes and all the terrible choices I ever made in footwear.
I was cocky during my training because I talk big like that but, also because being on the floor felt so familiar and I was picking it all right back up again. I knew what to say and how to serve the food and drinks. I passed the only test I set for myself which was carrying a tray and walking at the same time. My attitude stank of HURRY UP AND LET ME MAKE SOME MONEY ALREADY :D
In fact, the day they finally put me on the floor that pesky pricey precious gasoline issue was dominat on my mind in it's glaring absence from my car. I was estactic and confident when I finally made the seating chart. My first few days were cake because we were slow and even though I only made gas money I had a fist full of dollars. okay, singles but still, I earned those bills with my labor and that felt good.
Of course, we can't have cake all the time and I was about the endure the real test that colored my teeny tiny balancing act at best, elementary. Throughout my training and first week as a server (3 wks) I had never worked during a really busy rush. It had always been slow and I was thankful that the place seemed busy enough to make some money but not busy enough that I had to bring my non existant A game. My first rush came when I was finishing up what appeared to be a slow dinner shift.
The other server T had just been cut after we'd worked 2 hrs and about 5 tables each total with no mare than 2 at a time. I was the only server on the floor and within 15 mins there were ten tables on the floor. T had to come back on the floor, the manager had to take tables, it was truly the stuff of nightmares. I tell myself it wasn't quite epic fail yet, I'm sure my co workers that evening had another opinion.
The next few weeks were more of the same. When it was slow or even a steady flow with other strong servers I was a Rock Star on the floor but, when it was really busy I couldn't keep up and missed out on lots of tables + tips. My confidence dwindled and I began to make stupid mistakes because I was trying to work faster. I began to think they were going to fire me. I never thought about quitting, well, may be a few times...
Without noticing it things got better as I really got familiar with the menu and the seating plan and the computers. After about 2 months in I finally started getting faster, after 3 months I could finally take off the tunnel vision, and I tell you what; being able to see the whole picture really helps during those dreaded rushes.
I may not be as fast as the other servers but I'm great at delegation and while still not a Rock Star during the rushes (who is?) I think I'm finally proving my worth.
Monday, June 7, 2010
Summer Homeschool plan
Amber has been stoked all weekend long to begin our summer homeschool. I admit to being hugely flattered by her excitement because it means she is enthused to be with me learning what we decide to learn. She has been purusing a bk of science experiements and has already bookmarked 16 must do experiements. I've created a loose structure for the first week that leaves plenty of free time, includes already scheduled events, and provides some oppurtunities for serious study, learning new skills, and active play time.
8-10 morning routine - HS doesn't start untill her bed has been made, she is dressed, had bfast, and brushed her teeth and hair. We start at 10am so if she finishes these things earlier than 10 she has free/choice time to have 15 min on the pc a day, reading an hr a day, or playing inside or out.
10-12 morning homeschool or amhs -- mon introduce weekly theme and vocab list, tues pe either park playdates or yoga @ home, wed geography and history, thurs pe PT @ CDH, fri review of weekly theme and vocab, sat pe rollerskating, sunday spiritual either UUSG or TS.
12-2pm lunch free time -- after she has helped prepare, eat, and clean up she has free/choice time to have 15 min on the pc a day, reading an hr a day, or playing inside or out.
2-4pm afternoon homeschool or pmhs -- mon chess club @ WPL, tues book club @ WPL, wed handwriting practise (she can create a story, write a letter, or write in a journal), thurs math worksheets and/or pc games plus music (we are starting with her learning songs on her keyboard), fri is art and/or fiedtrips to local museums for the passport to adventure, sat & sun will be open due to potential run over of amhs and interruption by errands, visits, or parties.
4-6pm dinner free time -- after she has helped prepare, eat, and clean up she has free/choice time to have 15 min on the pc a day, reading an hr a day, or playing inside or out.
6-8pm evening homeschool or evehs -- mon pe Kyuki-Do, tues science experiement, wed pe Kyuki-Do, thurs science experiements, fri movie night, sat game night, sun no plan yet.
8-9pm B4 bed routine - shower, pjs, pickup and put away toys, bks, etc from around hse, clean bdrm floor, followed by reading for the remaining time b4 her 9pm bdtime. I am restricting her reading time this summer (I know it sounds strange) because if I don't she won't do anything else other than read or listen to audio bks.
Personally, I think this is is a way too structured summer day for an 8yo but in the past few weeks I've learned that Amber really enjoys having a game plan for each and every day. I've tried to make it as loose as possible to allow for changes, additions, and subtractions.
8-10 morning routine - HS doesn't start untill her bed has been made, she is dressed, had bfast, and brushed her teeth and hair. We start at 10am so if she finishes these things earlier than 10 she has free/choice time to have 15 min on the pc a day, reading an hr a day, or playing inside or out.
10-12 morning homeschool or amhs -- mon introduce weekly theme and vocab list, tues pe either park playdates or yoga @ home, wed geography and history, thurs pe PT @ CDH, fri review of weekly theme and vocab, sat pe rollerskating, sunday spiritual either UUSG or TS.
12-2pm lunch free time -- after she has helped prepare, eat, and clean up she has free/choice time to have 15 min on the pc a day, reading an hr a day, or playing inside or out.
2-4pm afternoon homeschool or pmhs -- mon chess club @ WPL, tues book club @ WPL, wed handwriting practise (she can create a story, write a letter, or write in a journal), thurs math worksheets and/or pc games plus music (we are starting with her learning songs on her keyboard), fri is art and/or fiedtrips to local museums for the passport to adventure, sat & sun will be open due to potential run over of amhs and interruption by errands, visits, or parties.
4-6pm dinner free time -- after she has helped prepare, eat, and clean up she has free/choice time to have 15 min on the pc a day, reading an hr a day, or playing inside or out.
6-8pm evening homeschool or evehs -- mon pe Kyuki-Do, tues science experiement, wed pe Kyuki-Do, thurs science experiements, fri movie night, sat game night, sun no plan yet.
8-9pm B4 bed routine - shower, pjs, pickup and put away toys, bks, etc from around hse, clean bdrm floor, followed by reading for the remaining time b4 her 9pm bdtime. I am restricting her reading time this summer (I know it sounds strange) because if I don't she won't do anything else other than read or listen to audio bks.
Personally, I think this is is a way too structured summer day for an 8yo but in the past few weeks I've learned that Amber really enjoys having a game plan for each and every day. I've tried to make it as loose as possible to allow for changes, additions, and subtractions.
Tuesday, May 11, 2010
rainy day reflection
summer's coming quick to chicagoland even if today's weather is proof against that statement. there are only 4 weeks left of the school year and it's so bittersweet. year 36 of my life is coming to a close.
s's job was put in peril this weekend. turned out to be an empty threat but it sucked none the less. thankfully, we didn't let it spoil mother's day. there was almond french tst for bfast and a morning spent planting flowers. we visited both sets of mothers followed by a late lunch/early dinner at 5 guys. then 2.5 hrs combing half price books for deals. we capped the day off at the picture show for a last chance to see Avatar on the big screen.
lately, I've neglected my blog, lj, and most online connections. sometimes, I just feel adrift and only just brushing the edges of reflection. altho, my paper journal has been well used and we've been doing tons of fun stuff. maybe, it's a privacy thing. having my own laptop w/access to all my files and photos made it so much easier to post, blog, or type into the void. doing so on a shared pc just isn't the same and it's hard for me to get into the right head space.
yep, summer's coming even if today is rainy and cold... I'm hoping to get a job this summer. there's a potential babysitting gig w/one of a's classmates and it would be a really long day. so, the offer would have to be decent. otherwise, I guess it's a server job for me. bleh.
s's job was put in peril this weekend. turned out to be an empty threat but it sucked none the less. thankfully, we didn't let it spoil mother's day. there was almond french tst for bfast and a morning spent planting flowers. we visited both sets of mothers followed by a late lunch/early dinner at 5 guys. then 2.5 hrs combing half price books for deals. we capped the day off at the picture show for a last chance to see Avatar on the big screen.
lately, I've neglected my blog, lj, and most online connections. sometimes, I just feel adrift and only just brushing the edges of reflection. altho, my paper journal has been well used and we've been doing tons of fun stuff. maybe, it's a privacy thing. having my own laptop w/access to all my files and photos made it so much easier to post, blog, or type into the void. doing so on a shared pc just isn't the same and it's hard for me to get into the right head space.
yep, summer's coming even if today is rainy and cold... I'm hoping to get a job this summer. there's a potential babysitting gig w/one of a's classmates and it would be a really long day. so, the offer would have to be decent. otherwise, I guess it's a server job for me. bleh.
Monday, March 1, 2010
pc problems
the loud silence in space is due to pc problems not lack of interest. my laptop died in the early weeks of 2010 and there's no replacement in sight. I am using a shared pc and all my files, pics, etc are still being held hostage by that deceased machine.
Friday, December 18, 2009
Meditation for World Peace
Another year is coming to a close and a new one is just waiting to begin.Let's give Peace a chance to grow in our hearts and minds.I invite you to join me for a sunrise meditation at The Theosophical Societyin Wheaton on 12-31-2009. Everyone is welcome and you can find moreinformation here.
http://www.theosophical.org/events/nationalprograms/index.php
http://www.theosophical.org/events/nationalprograms/index.php
Meditation for World Peace
Thursday, December 31, 6 - 7 a.m.Peace
This is a yearly event in which people use their concentrated thought powerto help generate energy for peace. Coinciding with group meditationsthroughout the world, we meet to help heal the sense of separation amonghuman beings and to release light, love, and spiritual energy. Refreshmentswill be served after the meditation.No charge. All donations, monetary or canned/paper products, are given tothe Humanitarian Service Project for people in need.
Feel free to contact me kimisutra@comcast if you are interested in assisting in the meditation.
Monday, December 14, 2009
Let's all do the Holiday Hustle :)
Whew! What a weekend!
I can’t say it started at all pleasant on Sat morning when I had to say farewell for now to a dear friend who was visiting :( nor was putting up with DH as he made his usual disgruntled morning sound disturbances.
So, it is no wonder that my girl and I headed out ASAP! First, we went to the library open house, followed by a visit to Grandma’s house, a shopping trip for snow boots, and dinner at our favorite Asian Restaurant. Throw in a few other quick stops for rushed covert gift shopping and we ended up with a late night stop at Cosley Zoo’s Festival of Lights.
http://www.wheatonparkdistrict.com/pgs/parks/cosley/events/special.html#pumpkins_scarecrows
We walked along the duck path delighting in the animal shaped light displays and enjoyed a few more along the deer path. Most of the bird exhibits are closed for the winter but we spent some time chatting with the great horned owl and then wandered among the sweet smelling evergreen trees gathering scraps for crafts.
We got home hours later than planned and had way more fun than our usual weekend errand running and shopping trips. The night ended with ‘The flight before Xmas’ and hot cocoa by the naked tree.
Sunday morning we woke and hurried out the door to church. Thinking we were late, we walked right in to the sanctuary to find that we had arrived RIGHT in the middle of the early service. We obviously had read the clocks wrong. It is really funny in retrospect and it turned out to benefit the rest of the day in that we may have started on the wrong foot but we kept dancing and danced all day right up to bedtime.
That afternoon we decided to take a quick trip back in time to the 1890’s for Christmas at the Klein Creek Farm. http://www.dupageforest.com/NewsReleases/Holiday_Celebrations_at_Kline_Creek_Farm.html
Touring the elegant simplicity and festive decorations in the farmhouse and the quiet beauty of the winter wonder land was like jumping into a story or walking into a painting.
We went to the house first and were just in time for the tour which started in the kitchen, through the dining room, and ended in the parlor for a holiday carol and a cookie. Outside we smelled wood smoke and followed our noses to a big pit of delicious cider and more caroling.
Feeling full of Christmas cheer we then made our way back to the visitor’s center where volunteers had set up a craft table making cornucopias or decorative paper cones. As luck would have it Santa had made a surprise visit and my girl got a photo op with him in his sleigh.
Just as we were leaving we noticed a pair of ponies being led to a hay filled sleigh and we were invited to the first sleigh ride of the afternoon. We saw pretty cows that were all pregnant, a lot of Canadian geese taking a break from their long flight, and a small lake that is slowly growing the first crop the farm will harvest this winter season. What grows in a lake in winter? Why, ice; of course!
Finally, we made our way home this time before dark and laden with groceries. While dinner cooked and holiday music played we finally decorated the tree. Family bonding ensued as bedtime passed us by while we basked in the glory of our beautiful tree sipping more hot cocoa.
I can’t say it started at all pleasant on Sat morning when I had to say farewell for now to a dear friend who was visiting :( nor was putting up with DH as he made his usual disgruntled morning sound disturbances.
So, it is no wonder that my girl and I headed out ASAP! First, we went to the library open house, followed by a visit to Grandma’s house, a shopping trip for snow boots, and dinner at our favorite Asian Restaurant. Throw in a few other quick stops for rushed covert gift shopping and we ended up with a late night stop at Cosley Zoo’s Festival of Lights.
http://www.wheatonparkdistrict.com/pgs/parks/cosley/events/special.html#pumpkins_scarecrows
We walked along the duck path delighting in the animal shaped light displays and enjoyed a few more along the deer path. Most of the bird exhibits are closed for the winter but we spent some time chatting with the great horned owl and then wandered among the sweet smelling evergreen trees gathering scraps for crafts.
We got home hours later than planned and had way more fun than our usual weekend errand running and shopping trips. The night ended with ‘The flight before Xmas’ and hot cocoa by the naked tree.
Sunday morning we woke and hurried out the door to church. Thinking we were late, we walked right in to the sanctuary to find that we had arrived RIGHT in the middle of the early service. We obviously had read the clocks wrong. It is really funny in retrospect and it turned out to benefit the rest of the day in that we may have started on the wrong foot but we kept dancing and danced all day right up to bedtime.
That afternoon we decided to take a quick trip back in time to the 1890’s for Christmas at the Klein Creek Farm. http://www.dupageforest.com/NewsReleases/Holiday_Celebrations_at_Kline_Creek_Farm.html
Touring the elegant simplicity and festive decorations in the farmhouse and the quiet beauty of the winter wonder land was like jumping into a story or walking into a painting.
We went to the house first and were just in time for the tour which started in the kitchen, through the dining room, and ended in the parlor for a holiday carol and a cookie. Outside we smelled wood smoke and followed our noses to a big pit of delicious cider and more caroling.
Feeling full of Christmas cheer we then made our way back to the visitor’s center where volunteers had set up a craft table making cornucopias or decorative paper cones. As luck would have it Santa had made a surprise visit and my girl got a photo op with him in his sleigh.
Just as we were leaving we noticed a pair of ponies being led to a hay filled sleigh and we were invited to the first sleigh ride of the afternoon. We saw pretty cows that were all pregnant, a lot of Canadian geese taking a break from their long flight, and a small lake that is slowly growing the first crop the farm will harvest this winter season. What grows in a lake in winter? Why, ice; of course!
Finally, we made our way home this time before dark and laden with groceries. While dinner cooked and holiday music played we finally decorated the tree. Family bonding ensued as bedtime passed us by while we basked in the glory of our beautiful tree sipping more hot cocoa.
Monday, November 16, 2009
my sweet girl
I sent amber outside this morning to test the weather and whether her outerwear was enough to keep her warm. When she came back in she had picked me some of the last of the mums growing out front. They are really cool mums that start out white and then the edges turn purple instead of brown as they start to wilt. She even filled one of my colored water bottles with water and arranged the flowers on the over the sink shelf. my sweet girl.
She's been home sick since Friday. Lots of cold symptoms, no fever, but I kept her home cause I wanted to protect the world from the miss cranky pants she can be when she does not feel well, not to mention the arsenal of snot pouring from her nose had potential to infect the nation. I kept her home on Monday last week but sent her to school on Tuesday as I waited for more symptoms to develop. which happened later in the week so I kept her home Friday and over the weekend. She was really bummed because she had been signed up for a cool program at the library (comic book drawing) and had been invited to a birthday party on Sat.
A local mom friend who wanted us to join her for some monkey joe's kind of fun (also on Sat) acted like I was crazy to keep her in if she did not have a fever. I'm sure she was just acting like that out of dissapointment but still, it bothered me. In my world, we keep our germs to ourselves, even if they are just measely viral infections and not the big scary bacterial flu infections.
Partly to cheer her up for missing the festivities of the weekend we put together a preliminary xmas wish list. making the top of the list is an easy bake oven. she is finally ready to give up her disney princess play kitchen for the next step as she calls it. The big blue tub of Legos made the number 2 slot w/the Star Wars lego kit as number 3. Leapster games, science kits, and a hot wheels race track are nos 4, 5, & 6. Then came Miyasaki movies, Ravensburger games, and cds by the jonas bros, bon jovi, and micheal jackson. I made her an Amazon wish list for the occasion because that's where we did most of our 'window' shopping. I am hoping it will come in handy when my in laws and extended family ask after gift ideas.
She's been home sick since Friday. Lots of cold symptoms, no fever, but I kept her home cause I wanted to protect the world from the miss cranky pants she can be when she does not feel well, not to mention the arsenal of snot pouring from her nose had potential to infect the nation. I kept her home on Monday last week but sent her to school on Tuesday as I waited for more symptoms to develop. which happened later in the week so I kept her home Friday and over the weekend. She was really bummed because she had been signed up for a cool program at the library (comic book drawing) and had been invited to a birthday party on Sat.
A local mom friend who wanted us to join her for some monkey joe's kind of fun (also on Sat) acted like I was crazy to keep her in if she did not have a fever. I'm sure she was just acting like that out of dissapointment but still, it bothered me. In my world, we keep our germs to ourselves, even if they are just measely viral infections and not the big scary bacterial flu infections.
Partly to cheer her up for missing the festivities of the weekend we put together a preliminary xmas wish list. making the top of the list is an easy bake oven. she is finally ready to give up her disney princess play kitchen for the next step as she calls it. The big blue tub of Legos made the number 2 slot w/the Star Wars lego kit as number 3. Leapster games, science kits, and a hot wheels race track are nos 4, 5, & 6. Then came Miyasaki movies, Ravensburger games, and cds by the jonas bros, bon jovi, and micheal jackson. I made her an Amazon wish list for the occasion because that's where we did most of our 'window' shopping. I am hoping it will come in handy when my in laws and extended family ask after gift ideas.
Thursday, September 10, 2009
we all fall down
well, summer in Chicago is spent and gone by the wayside making room for the return to school daze of September. Yet, not once did I check back here with details of our exploits or adventures. my apologies.
In truth there weren't many exploits or adventures. Without a car and in the heat we did not go many places or do many things. Throughout the days of June and July we went to the park, the library, and the nature preseves we could reach by foot. And, in the evenings after Scott came home we roamed a little farther but mostly the two of them went bike riding or walked around the block.
Amber HATED the new gymnastics teacher and a few of the fellow students who were down right mean to her. It was a disaster but the money was spent so I insisted she keep trying. Even though she was a trooper and kept going I did not enjoy watching her begin to dislike the sport so I finally relented and let her bail on the last two classes.
Near the end of July I had dental surgery and I am just now days away from full recovery. 7 weeks on liquid/soft food diet with the reward of a 20 lbs weightloss. While that is fantastic I still do not enjoy mushy food. I am so stoked to finally be able to eat grains again and have been perfecting my risotto.
School started a few weeks ago and we've already battled the first set of cold bugs. Yea! for airbourne, I really think it was the major factor in our speedy recovery. This minor illness prevented Amber from being in school the day of the controversial presidental speech. And, although her school did show the speech they limited it to grades 3 and up so she would have had to view it at home with me anyway... But, still I'm kinda irked that her absence could be ASSumed as a protest on my part.
In truth there weren't many exploits or adventures. Without a car and in the heat we did not go many places or do many things. Throughout the days of June and July we went to the park, the library, and the nature preseves we could reach by foot. And, in the evenings after Scott came home we roamed a little farther but mostly the two of them went bike riding or walked around the block.
Amber HATED the new gymnastics teacher and a few of the fellow students who were down right mean to her. It was a disaster but the money was spent so I insisted she keep trying. Even though she was a trooper and kept going I did not enjoy watching her begin to dislike the sport so I finally relented and let her bail on the last two classes.
Near the end of July I had dental surgery and I am just now days away from full recovery. 7 weeks on liquid/soft food diet with the reward of a 20 lbs weightloss. While that is fantastic I still do not enjoy mushy food. I am so stoked to finally be able to eat grains again and have been perfecting my risotto.
School started a few weeks ago and we've already battled the first set of cold bugs. Yea! for airbourne, I really think it was the major factor in our speedy recovery. This minor illness prevented Amber from being in school the day of the controversial presidental speech. And, although her school did show the speech they limited it to grades 3 and up so she would have had to view it at home with me anyway... But, still I'm kinda irked that her absence could be ASSumed as a protest on my part.
Thursday, May 21, 2009
I feel the summer rolling into Chicago full of swimming, cook-outs, camp-outs, lazy days, fun days, and sweltering muggy heat days. days that make you thank goodness for AC :)
I've got plans for us this summer. Amber will revert to an evolved form of our old homeschool patterns, schedules, and routines. Except, I have a feeling that my role this summer will more resemble that of her social secretary, ha. Lately, I've been wondering just when do parents but out of playdates schedules and let our kids arrange their own social life? The summer gymnastics class is only $30 so I am fairly sure I can find a way to swing that. A week with beans instead of meat should suffice. There's a week long intensive day camp at the Animal Shelter for $75 that I heartedly wish I could swing but, in reality hinges on a hope and a prayer along with a pool membership and lessons.
Her HS schedule will involve printing practise, every day art or craft, and she prefers the routine of worksheets over the discussion of math and science. So, I thhink I am going to try to add some practical with gardening and cooking. I've let her have free reign with her chapter books and books on tape all school year but, over the summer I'm going to introduce reading lists. And, really try to encourage more active discussion about the stories. Maybe, since she really enjoys worksheets maybe I will make a form sheet for her to use to review or report on each title. If nothing else, that will provide fodder for disscusion. For her extra-curriculars, we'll be doing the 'passport to adventure' on the free days, going to the festivals and fairs with my p's, and of course, having playdates. A LOT of this stuff will be around town on foot or using public transportation. We have the PACE bus system and the NW Metra Line.
For me, it's all about improving my health. Even tho, our budget calls for me to cancel my gym membership I know can be active anywhere. Because now, my body is no longer revolting and I feel so much stronger this spring. I am actually looking forward to the added exercise that not having a car induces you to walk everywhere. Plus, I am really hoping to get a bike for my bday. It is seriously the only thing I want, except for maybe a flight south to see my whit. I am finally covered by the state insurance so I am going to get some if not all of my dental work done. And, I will finally fill out the paperwork needed to complete my last class in the fall to receive my library science certificate from COD in the winter.
For Scott, well, I have no desire to make S's summer plans nor would he want me to. I am pretty sure he doesn't wish to do anything different than he does right now. Except for seeking relief from the heat and setting the AC at 50 something degrees... brrr! However, I am planning at least 3 family campouts and I know and will need constant reminding that even if he grumbles the entire time (sigh) he will take from the experience mostly happy memories of stoking a fire and being with his family.
I am terribly excited about these campouts! We camped a lot when I was young and now I know why my family did it so often. It's is the cheapest vacation EVER. And, many camp sites have loads of extra amentities for not much more than the same cheap rate of more rustic sites. We are going to do some back to basics at Blackwell, a coushy stay at the TS, and then one more maybe out west near Starved Rock later in the summer. I am still vetting details for the last campout and pulling some strings. My p's have a pop-up camper we can borrow, but my car has no trailer hitch, and I am waiting for Scott's vaca time slot to be approved. What I would like to do is do a week long vaca with a scenic drive and a few days days camping either at one lovely palce or a few nice ones along the way.
We also have the 3 storms of chaos aka my family's 3 annual summer cookouts. Memorable Memorial Day is fast approaching this Sunday, then there is my Beautiful Bday on the Solstice, and the bombs of the 4th. Please note, all of these events involve larger and larger quantities of wine consumption as the years progress and therby, making each event more and more exciting, ha!
What are you and/or your family planning this summer?
I've got plans for us this summer. Amber will revert to an evolved form of our old homeschool patterns, schedules, and routines. Except, I have a feeling that my role this summer will more resemble that of her social secretary, ha. Lately, I've been wondering just when do parents but out of playdates schedules and let our kids arrange their own social life? The summer gymnastics class is only $30 so I am fairly sure I can find a way to swing that. A week with beans instead of meat should suffice. There's a week long intensive day camp at the Animal Shelter for $75 that I heartedly wish I could swing but, in reality hinges on a hope and a prayer along with a pool membership and lessons.
Her HS schedule will involve printing practise, every day art or craft, and she prefers the routine of worksheets over the discussion of math and science. So, I thhink I am going to try to add some practical with gardening and cooking. I've let her have free reign with her chapter books and books on tape all school year but, over the summer I'm going to introduce reading lists. And, really try to encourage more active discussion about the stories. Maybe, since she really enjoys worksheets maybe I will make a form sheet for her to use to review or report on each title. If nothing else, that will provide fodder for disscusion. For her extra-curriculars, we'll be doing the 'passport to adventure' on the free days, going to the festivals and fairs with my p's, and of course, having playdates. A LOT of this stuff will be around town on foot or using public transportation. We have the PACE bus system and the NW Metra Line.
For me, it's all about improving my health. Even tho, our budget calls for me to cancel my gym membership I know can be active anywhere. Because now, my body is no longer revolting and I feel so much stronger this spring. I am actually looking forward to the added exercise that not having a car induces you to walk everywhere. Plus, I am really hoping to get a bike for my bday. It is seriously the only thing I want, except for maybe a flight south to see my whit. I am finally covered by the state insurance so I am going to get some if not all of my dental work done. And, I will finally fill out the paperwork needed to complete my last class in the fall to receive my library science certificate from COD in the winter.
For Scott, well, I have no desire to make S's summer plans nor would he want me to. I am pretty sure he doesn't wish to do anything different than he does right now. Except for seeking relief from the heat and setting the AC at 50 something degrees... brrr! However, I am planning at least 3 family campouts and I know and will need constant reminding that even if he grumbles the entire time (sigh) he will take from the experience mostly happy memories of stoking a fire and being with his family.
I am terribly excited about these campouts! We camped a lot when I was young and now I know why my family did it so often. It's is the cheapest vacation EVER. And, many camp sites have loads of extra amentities for not much more than the same cheap rate of more rustic sites. We are going to do some back to basics at Blackwell, a coushy stay at the TS, and then one more maybe out west near Starved Rock later in the summer. I am still vetting details for the last campout and pulling some strings. My p's have a pop-up camper we can borrow, but my car has no trailer hitch, and I am waiting for Scott's vaca time slot to be approved. What I would like to do is do a week long vaca with a scenic drive and a few days days camping either at one lovely palce or a few nice ones along the way.
We also have the 3 storms of chaos aka my family's 3 annual summer cookouts. Memorable Memorial Day is fast approaching this Sunday, then there is my Beautiful Bday on the Solstice, and the bombs of the 4th. Please note, all of these events involve larger and larger quantities of wine consumption as the years progress and therby, making each event more and more exciting, ha!
What are you and/or your family planning this summer?
Wednesday, April 22, 2009
Every Day can be Earth Day.
think about the simplicity of the idea. even small steps to reduce, reuse, and recycle by everyone can lead to a much better future for our Earth. go plant a tree, pick up litter, unplug your appliances, walk instead of drive, something, anything...
Friday, April 17, 2009
Thursday, April 16, 2009
should I or shouldn't I?
I'm considering making the plunge and switching from LiveJournal to Blogger. There are still many LJs I will continue to read and of course, there's the Face Book fans to keep up with...
This blog will be geared for distant relatives and friends to keep up with the McDuffee-Dotson family adventures. I plan to post date past entries and also plan to attempt some weblog scrapbooking, so check the archives if I forget to remind you of something new that is also something old.
My nine year anniversary is in 2 weeks and I created a lil photo album thingy on photobucket. I was inspired by the ease of it and now I am planning on putting together a collage of me and scott photos as my gift to him. Not sure if it will be created electronically or on paper. My dilema comes from having both print and digital photos of that time. I wonder if I should print the digital or scan the print. Maybe, I should do both, what do you think?
This blog will be geared for distant relatives and friends to keep up with the McDuffee-Dotson family adventures. I plan to post date past entries and also plan to attempt some weblog scrapbooking, so check the archives if I forget to remind you of something new that is also something old.
My nine year anniversary is in 2 weeks and I created a lil photo album thingy on photobucket. I was inspired by the ease of it and now I am planning on putting together a collage of me and scott photos as my gift to him. Not sure if it will be created electronically or on paper. My dilema comes from having both print and digital photos of that time. I wonder if I should print the digital or scan the print. Maybe, I should do both, what do you think?
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